The Joy List
A book titled Calm in my Chaos had a great suggestion for creating a list of things that bring you joy. To create the list , write as many things as you can in five minutes that bring you even the most remote pleasure- nothing, the author writes, is too small. Here is mine:
Chantel's Joy List
- unprompted back rubs from my dear husband
- Tamerah's seven-toothed grin
- Alayna's heart to help
- the feel of the sun on my arms after walking out of a shivering cold building
- sunlight filling a room after the shades have been pulled back
- stretching out on freshly washed sheets after a long, tiring day
- my husband's way of making me bowl over with laughter ( he is so funny!)
- learning a new song on my guitar
- taking the children to a huge playground and watching them have fun while I just sit and relax
So try it- write a "joy list". Then when youare having a chaotic moment, pull it out and close your eyes to picture it all.
Do you recommend that book? I'm going back to work in August, and it definitely sounds like a book I might need to read!
ReplyDelete@Amy: It really is a beautiful read. One entry a day, and they are short sweet and thought provoking.
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